So I think the idea that “someone must have really hurt you” is a short-sided assumption of the deconstruction experience.

It's a fairly common thought among exvangelicals, that belief is not a choice. I decided to address it.

Here's my top 3 reasons you need these communities and how to know its time to move on.

The entrance gate, the ticket in, to evangelical Christianity is not actually LOVE or a God that loves unconditionally. It’s fear and shame

Language is powerful. It has been used to communicate, instruct, teach, tell stories, and connect. It can also be used to control.